| Location | Cheshunt |
| Age | 14 years |
| Cause of Death | Glandular Fever |
| Date of Birth | 20/10/1992 |
| Date of Death | 16/05/2007 |
| Visitors | 18,754 since 11/07/2007 |
| Creator | |
| Helpers |
Aimee-Louise Bates
20.10.1992 - to - 16.05.2007
Aged 14
**********************************************PLEASE READ******************************************
THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO HAVE LEFT MESSAGES AND CANDLES FOR OUR AIMEE ON HER 17TH BIRTHDAY, WE DO
APPRECIATE YOUR SUPPORT SO MUCH. LOVE TINA AND FAMILY XXX
****************************************************************************************************
********
I AM SORRY I HAVE'NT BEEN ABLE TO LIGHT CANDLES FOR
YOUR ANGELS THIS WEEK, BUT THEY ARE ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS.
Aimee had two elder sisters, one (Kerry) passed before she was born and the other (April) had 14
wonderfull years with her. She loved her mum and dad so much, they were and still are her
everything.
She passed very suddenly, she went to the doctors on Monday with a sore throat,swollen face and
swollen glands, the doctor diagnosed her with an allergy and a sore throat.
The next day (Tuesday) she was off school... but later on in the evening she was showing signs of
getting better.
Then about half nine Tuesday night she was in alot of pain and not in a good way at all, she was
rushed to hospital and the doctors diagnosed her with glandular fever and 3 hours later she had
passed.
She was the one and only person ever to pass from glandular fever, so rare, but that doesnt make it
any easier in the slightest.
Aimee was an amazing girl, loyal, trustworthy, beautiful in every respect, she was just perfect.
She could never put a foot wrong she always put everyone before herself, she loved her family and
friends more than anything in the world, they meant everything to her.
She was such a happy girl, always had a smile on her face, always there for whoever needed her, just
so amazing its hard to put into words just how amazing she was.
We are all going to miss her so much, she had such an impact on so many people.
Love You Forever and a day
Miss you soo much Ayesy.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
** If you would like to contact Aimee's Mum (Tina) her email address is : christinabates1@aol.com
and msn address is christinabates1@hotmail.co.uk **
** Aimee's Myspace - http://www.myspace.com/xxaimeebatesxx **
Yazmin, Bonnie, Nicola, Paige, Steph and Lauren (her bestfriends) said:
Oh Aimee how you made us laugh. You always had a great big smile across your face, and cheered
people up when they were down, but that was you, fun loving and caring.
We loved everything about you and still do. At school the times we would be late to lessons and the
excuses you would try to get away with. They were so funny! And The little sing songs that were so
out of tune. You will be so dearly missed by each and every one of us but never forgotten. We will
always love you and you will always be in our thoughts and our hearts forever. We know you are now a
shinning star in the sky and you will always be with us. We all miss you so very much
Stephen Drake, The Headteacher at Cheshunt School, said:
"Aimee-Louise was a lovely, vibrant girl, much liked by her friends and classmates and a valuable
member of our community. She was a model student."
Songs played at her funeral:
One Sweet Day by Mariah Carey and Boys II Men. (On the way in)
Your Face by Lemar. (After mum and dad's eulogy)
Missing You by Brandy, Tamia, Chaka Khan and Gladys Knight. (After my eulogy)
You and I by Will Young. (On the way out)
The Gift of Memory
One gift, above all others
God gives to us to treasure
One that knows no time, no place
And one gold cannot measure
The precious, poignant tender gift
Of Memory...that will keep
Of dear ones ever in our hearts
Although God gives them sleep
It brings back long remembered things
A song, a word, a smile
And the world's a better place
...because
We had them for awhile!
Rest In Peace Sweet Heart x
I watched the dedication video on bebo and it had a link under it directing me to this site it hit me so hard and brang a tear to my eye to see such a beautiful person leave you so earlie. So i hope you dont mind me showing my condolences.
I didnt know Aimee but this video touched me aspecially the end wit the funeral pics. She seemed a really amazin girl and i bet she was to all those that lost her. Let her memory still run threw ur hearts im certain she will never ever be forgotten. Shes another soul added to the stars above, just pick the brightest one. I also lit a candle in her memory.
Rest In Peace angel god bless x
My Beautiful Daughter Aimee
'A' why did this have to happen to you, it's just not fair, you meant the world to me and still do. I love you so much this feeling is just breaking my heart, you are such a wonderful, caring person, who thought so much for other people you just did'nt deserve this, I would do ANYTHING to have you back. I hope that you are still around and one day we will be together again, and on that day I will never let you go again.
All my love forever my darling Mum xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
S.A.N.D.S hymn
Hymn Fleetingly known, yet ever remembered
to the tune 'Morning has Broken'
Fleetingly known, yet ever remembered
These are our children, now and always:
These whom we see not, we will forget not,
Morning and evenings, all of our days.
Lives that touched our lives, tenderly, briefly,
Now in the one light living always.
Named in our hearts now, safe from all harm now,
We will remember, all of our days.
As we recall them, silently name them,
Open our hearts, Lord, now and always:
Grant to us, grieving, love for the living:
Strength for each other, all of our days.
Safe in your peace, Lord, hold these our children,
Grace, light and laughter, grant them each day:
Cherish and hold them, till we may know them,
When to your glory we find our way.
Thinking of you Tina.XXX
I am wearing a pair of shoes.
They are ugly shoes.
Uncomfortable shoes.
I hate my shoes.
Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.
Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step.
Yet, I continue to wear them.
I get funny looks wearing these shoes.
They are looks of sympathy.
I can tell in other's eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not
theirs.
They never talk about my shoes.
To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable.
To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them.
But, once you put them on, you can never take them off.
I now realize that I am not the only one who wears these shoes.
There are many pairs in this world.
Some women are like me and ache daily as they try to walk in them.
Some have learned how to walk in them so that they don't hurt quite so
much.
Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think
about how much they hurt.
No woman deserves to wear these shoes.
Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman.
These shoes have given me the strength to face anything.
They have made me who I am.
I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.
Miss You Angel
Aimee,
Its So Strange Not Seeing Your Face Around School And Your Msn Name Popping Up. You Were And Still Are Loved By So Many People. God Obviously Needed A Beautilful Angel And He Choose You. You Always Seemed So Happy And Was Always Laughing. You Are Missed So Much And We Still Cant Believe Your Gone. We Will Be Thinking Of You Every Single Day And We Hope You Are Safe Up There And Are Looking Down On All Of Us
Love You Angel
Sweet Dreams
R.I.P Babe
x x x x x x
Giving You Some Love
Hey Aimee
I was just reading all your friends and familys comments and it was really upsetting, I cant believe you went so soon, you had your whole life ahead of you, but god obviasly needed a beautiful angel like you!
You are loved so much by many people
Anyway Aimee i dont know what else to say
Hope your okay where you are and looking down on all your loved ones
Love You from Amber..x
AiM33
Aimee We Miss Yoou Soo Much Babes Your On Msn In Heaven It Still Dosent Seem Real Yoou Where Such A Lovely Girl And There Not 1 Dayy Im Not Missing Yoou Always Be In My Heart Babbes RiiP HUNNii3 MiiSiiNG YOOU LOADS BAB3S
LOV3 LAURA
xxxxx
Miss you so much
My Little Legs, I miss you so much. I don't know what to do, it has been two months and a few days, and my heart is broken and empty. I am typing this with tears in my eyes, I will carry on day by day, but sometimes I don't know how. You have left a big empty space, which will be impossible to fill. I love you,miss you and always will.
Love Dad XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Our Darling Aimee...
We Miss You So Much... this still doesnt seem real to me, I totally forgot you were gone yesterday and expected you to come into my room and tell me to turn the telly down because you were tryin to sleep... that really got me!
it was your 2 month anniversary a few days ago... i cant believe it's been that long... in some ways it seems like a lifetime and in other ways it seems like yesterday.... i really can't believe your gone Aye... i miss you so much!
Things will never be the same around here, we miss your wacky ways, all your friends are being great... coming round to see us and stuff still.
I'm going to get you those big balloons that i had for my birthday that you loved! in pink! lol... come down to see you at the cemetry with all your friends! gona be so hard Ayesy! but im doing for you... so i gota b strong for you!
x..I Love And Miss You So Much Aimee..x
XxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXx
Create an ever lasting memorial for your loved ones.
Start here »
Using the options below you can add this memorial to your personal garden.
| I am Aimee-Louise's ... | |
| Add to Garden: | |
| Notifications: | Text Message |
There have been 6260 candles lit for Aimee-Louise.
